The Tell/Show Turn
/This is my favorite "Turn" into an effect. As discussed yesterday, the Turn is the point where you transition into a magic trick.
Here are two examples of what this particular Turn looks like.
Example 1
You're having dinner with a friend. They ask if you have any new magic you're working on.
"Yeah, I have this one thing I'm working on. It uses music. So, like you would think of your favorite song. And then there's a little mind game you play that opens up an interesting channel of connection related to music. And... wait, actually maybe I could try it with you."
Example 2
You're hanging with a friend. "Is there a bruise there?" you ask, pointing at the back of your arm. "Damn. It feels like there's one there." You explain that earlier in the day you showed a trick to a co-worker and she got pissed and punched you in the arm. [Wagging your finger and imitating her] "You asshole. That's messed up. There's no way you did that. You're messing with my mind." And then she went off and punched me weirdly hard in the arm.
Your friend asks about the trick.
"Oh, it's this thing. It's kind of like a way to manipulate time. You take a dollar and you tear it in half. So now you have a very distinct before-and-after moment to reference. And, so, like you take one half and… actually, why don't I just show it to you."
It's not that you're going to use these specific stories—it's the structure that's important.
You start off describing the trick and then "change your mind" and offer to show it to them.
Why does this work so well? Because before you ever offer to perform, you’ve given them a chance to start wishing you would.
If you walk up to someone and say, "Want to see a trick?" Whether they do or not, that's going to feel a little bit needy on your part.
But here you’re just talking about a trick. That’s much more casual—and much less satisfying. Listening to someone describe a magic trick is a little like listening to someone describe a dream: there’s only so invested you can get in something you’re not actually experiencing.
After a couple of sentences, the natural thought is: I wish I could see this instead of just hearing about it.
Because you’re talking about things like mindreading, time travel, ESP, gambling scams, synchronicity—ideas that would be intriguing to experience. Hearing about them is like hearing someone describe a great new back-rub technique. Okay. But you’d rather feel it.
And that’s the trick of this approach: the desire to see the effect appears in their mind before the offer to perform appears in your mouth.
There’s a second benefit: it makes the performance feel genuinely spontaneous.
Compare pulling a bunch of props from your pockets and asking if someone wants to see a trick with this: you’re talking, the idea of showing them something seems to occur to you in the moment, and now you’re looking around for whatever you need.
“Okay, let’s see. Do I even have the stuff for this? I need a Sharpie, a bill, that little box from the antique store…”
Having to go gather the props can make the whole thing stronger. The lack of preparation becomes evidence that this wasn’t planned.
This is also a helpful Carefree Technique, because it means you don't have to have any props you need on you or nearby. This conversation and the decision to show the other person arose just now—so you can go assemble what you need.
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I know people are going to say, "There's nothing wrong with asking someone if they want to see a trick and then taking stuff out of your pocket."
Here's a thought experiment.
I want you to imagine you meet a quite attractive person of whatever sex you're into. After a few minutes of conversation, they say, "Would you like to see some nudes I had taken recently?"
Even if you’re attracted to this person—and even if you absolutely do want to see the photos—some part of that offer feels a little desperate. They’re pushing something desirable at you instead of giving you a chance to desire it first.
But if the person said, "I just had a modeling gig. It was a new experience for me. I usually do high fashion, but this was just like a necklace and nothing else. I was in a bed and it had these sheets which matched the color of this chunky necklace and the way he had me pose was—well, it's hard to explain—kind of like this…" And as she's talking, you're thinking, "Damn, I'd love to see those photos."
And just as you think that, she says, "Actually, let me show them to you. It's hard to explain and it will be good to get someone else's perspective." She's not going to come off as a sort of sad individual flashing her nudes around. It's almost going to feel like you instigated her offer to show them to you with the way you were thinking.
That's what the Tell/Show Turn is about: creating an unspoken wish in their mind that you are then able to grant by showing them the trick.