Mailbag #180
/Don’t you think that most Magicians categorise laymen as one singular group?
As if, because they are not magicians - they somehow are all the same.
Not all, I guess.
But some over here (bad ones) talk about laymen like they are singular and not the whole entire world.
As if they all have one shared brain.—CR
On some level, it’s understandable to think of “laypeople” as a monolith. Otherwise, there’s almost no way to make any statements about them whatsoever. What they like, what they bring to the table, and what fools them varies so much from person to person that we more or less have to imagine some generic individual—or else we’d spend all our time saying “if.”
If they’re like this. If they think this way. If they’re inquisitive. If they like mind reading. If they play Texas Hold ’Em. Ad infinitum.
So instead we talk about “Laymen” as if they’re some genderless, ageless, raceless, pansexual entity of indeterminate socioeconomic status, interests, and intellect.
Is that a problem? Not really.
Where it becomes an issue—and I think it’s one of the biggest issues we have in magic—is when our generic “layman” is imagined as someone who just so happens to be dumb, uninquisitive, and fully entertained by the most meaningless tricks and the hackiest jokes.
We don’t picture an intelligent, suspicious non-magician who is perfectly willing to write off most of what we do as “just a trick.” We picture some man-child laughing and clapping at everything we do, because that version of the spectator asks the least of us. We don’t have to work very hard to create something genuinely interesting, deceptive, or compelling if we’ve already imagined an audience that’s delighted by anything.
You see this kind of thinking all the time:
“Sure, they can’t examine the coin. But laymen don’t want to examine things as long as your presentation is entertaining.”
Oh, okay. Sure.
This sort of self-serving rationalization is practically the default setting in magic. We imagine the spectator we need in order for our choices to be justified, rather than the spectator we’re actually likely to encounter.
And I think that’s a big part of why magic has a reputation for being for children: because “Layman”—the imaginary spectator so much magic has been designed to fool and entertain—has essentially been modeled after one.
About 25% of the time, when people introduce me in a social situation, even though I'm a whole person with many fascinating qualities, a family and a cool non-magic job... they call out "Chris is a magician." I've always just kinda shook off these moments and either dovetailed into some conversation about the Magic Castle or they end up cornering me about 'that amazing magician they saw once.'
I've been curious how you handle that situation, the cold/unexpected/sudden intro as a magician: 1) are you ready to jump RIGHT into something with that as the easy entry-point? 2) I RARELY am, and in most cases, I'm just too exhausted or not in the mood to do magic at like a kid's birthday party to dads I don't know… so how do you handle the folks' expectations? They just met a magician who... doesn't really seem amped to do magic? It's an odd social magic scenario.
Thanks for considering this question. I think many folks will wonder about your view on this. —CL
It depends. If Person A is introducing me to Person B, and they say, “And he does magic!” and Person B just says, “Oh, neat,” I wouldn’t be inclined to show them anything.
But if someone is expressing genuine interest in magic, there really isn’t a situation where I wouldn’t show them something.
My mindset is that I have this thing in my life that I invest time in learning for the sole purpose of bringing some joy or mystery into people’s lives. To then get coy about showing it to people feels ridiculous to me.
I know the calculus is different if you perform professionally. But it still feels bizarre to me to turn down an opportunity to do something you (theoretically) enjoy for people who want to experience it. But Andy, would Taylor Swift sing a song at some random party just because she was asked? Actually yes. I was at an event where she did just that. The idea that professional performers are wildly reticent to perform unless they’re getting paid is the opposite of what I’ve experienced on numerous occasions when I’ve crossed paths with them through my non-magic work.
Of course, I’m not suggesting you start pulling props the moment the subject of magic comes up, like these “EDC magic” weirdos do. That’s not what people are hoping for. They want something that feels spontaneous and alive—not something that feels like you’ve been waiting all night for someone to activate your pocket full of gimmicks.
My attitude—not what I actually say—in these situations is: “Yes, I have an interest in magic. Oh, you want to see something? Yeah, I don’t know…I don’t really have anything on me. Actually, there’s this one thing I’ve been learning [or reading about] that we could try.”
Now, I think the main reason magicians are inclined to not show people something in this situation is that they don’t know what to do. It’s not that it would be such a burden to perform. It’s more that they can’t think of what to perform, or they don’t feel like they have something really great to show people.
So, logistically, I think it makes sense to craft a repertoire of a dozen tricks for these situations. And then, from that repertoire, maybe identify a single trick that will be your go-to when your mind goes blank and you can’t think of anything else.
Before starting this site, I used to dodge social performance opportunities frequently. But running this site pushed me to perform more. And the more I performed in those situations, the more prepared I felt for them. In my experience, once you're prepared, being asked to perform stops feeling like an imposition and starts feeling more like an opportunity.