Keepers

Every few years I like to mix up the newsletter format a bit. (For those who aren’t supporters, the monthly newsletter isn’t just a long email I send out or something, it’s a 10-30 page pdf zine/digest-type of thing.)

Originally (2016-2019) it was called X-Communiciation

Then, in 2020, it became The Wanderer.

After that, it became the Love Letters newsletter for three and a half years.

That marked a change in direction for the newsletter as it was where I decided to only focus on writing about things that I liked. Writing bad reviews is a lot easier, and they can be fun to read, but ultimately I don’t think they’re super valuable. If I want to trash something, I can do it on the site. Keeping the monthly review newsletter focused on the releases of others that I enjoyed gave it more of a purpose.

I believe the more energy you focus on positive things, the more positive things will come into your life—and conversely, the more you focus on negative things, the more negative things will follow

And I don’t mean that philosophically. I don’t mean, “if you have a better outlook, things will look better to you.” I mean it quite literally.

Think of your life as existing within a larger field of energy that’s always in motion.

Within that field are two masses: one oriented toward light and positivity, the other toward darkness and negativity.

At first, both are small. The energy flows evenly around them.

But your attention gives them weight.

When you return again and again to positive thoughts, moments, objects, or events, the positive mass grows heavier. And like any heavy object, it begins to bend the space around it.

As that bend deepens, more of the surrounding energy naturally falls toward the positive mass and adds to it. The good in your life becomes greater—easier to notice and easier to access.

This creates a feedback loop: attention creates weight; weight creates gravity; gravity pulls in more experience of the same kind.

The same mechanism works in reverse: negativity, when repeatedly fed with your attention, also grows dense. It pulls more darkness into its orbit. Not because the universe is cruel, but because gravity is impartial.

You’ve seen this. You know these people. The ones who seem to move through life collecting beauty and opportunity. And the ones who catalogue every slight, every inconvenience, every setback—and only seem to draw more of that into their orbit.

Over time, your inner universe begins to curve toward whatever you have allowed to become most massive.

So anywayyyy.… this is why the monthly newsletter will continue to focus on the things I’m enjoying.

I'm a big believer in building routines that help you focus on the positive. Prayer, list making, journaling—whatever practice helps you notice what you're appreciating: the cool people you meet, the media you enjoy, incredible meals, perfect days, great conversations, moments that made you laugh.

Everything you want to remember or want more of.

The “keepers.”

So, after 41 issues, the Love Letters newsletter is being retired. But what’s coming next won't be all that different, just a change in name and a little less structure.

Love Letters was almost always a deep dive on the three things I enjoyed most that month. This incarnation may feature more or fewer highlights, giving me the freedom to offer shorter write-ups when I like something but don't have much to say about it. My target is about 12 pages per month, but we'll see if I can keep it to just that.

It will still come out the first Sunday of every month.

So, if you're a supporter, keep an eye on your inbox January 4th for...