The Social Magic Litmus Test

Here is a simple heuristic to keep in mind when identifying magic that's good for social/casual performances.

Ask yourself, "Could I perform this on Instagram?"

If the answer is a resounding yes, then it's not great for social situations.

If the answer is yes, that means the trick doesn't need anyone but you. That means the only role for the other person is "audience."

That's not great for casual situations. In fact, I'd say it's uncomfortable.

If I invite you to my house and pull out a guitar and say, "Let's sing some songs," that could be a fun time.

If I invite you to my house and pull out a guitar and say, "I'm going to sing you some songs…" Well, now we've got a real weird situation going on.

Sure, maybe if you love my singing this will be a real treat for you. But in most circumstances it's going to be pretty awkward.

The hard truth that came to me far later in life than it should have is that magic is no different. Putting a friend, family member, co-worker, acquaintance, or whoever in the position of the person on the receiving end of your "art" isn't some kind of gift you're giving them. If anything, it's their attention that's a gift to you.

If you want to "Perform" rather than to interact with the audience, stick to the stage, or Instagram, or the mirror.